I spent so much of my life doing what I didn’t want to do for fear and of letting people down – little did I realise that through this process, I was letting myself down. Making myself do these things (that I didn’t want to do) was hurting my spirit and its no wonder I started to feel resentful.
When I told myself that it was ok to ‘change my mind, to cancel that appointment or to take a day off’ I started to feel less resentful and supported by the person that matters most in my life – me. I don’t mean that from an egocentric perspective but rather from a place of self respect and love.
By looking after ‘me’ I feel better and attract people into my life that mirror the respect and love that I have for myself. So remember – it’s ok not to answer that call, to speak up or to cancel that appointment.