It is only in latter years that I have learnt that indeed "I am my own magic wand". I have learnt that whatever I focus my mind and attention on, I will see more of. Therefore, I came to the powerful conclusion that if I was too focus my mind and attention on positive outcomes, I would then experience them.
I spent many years putting this wisdom to the test and can happily and gratefully report that this wisdom is indeed, very true!
Where attention goes, energy flows. What ever we focus on we see more of in our life. Therefore we may as well focus on the good and will no doubt see more of that!